I eventually found out I had cysts on my ovaries. I knew I was ready because I just looked at him and wanted to be with him. I put on lingerie, we lit a candle — the works. I really think that shapes how I treat sex now. After three weeks of him pressuring me to have sex, I finally felt ready. I was definitely into it, so I said, 'OK, I want to be your girlfriend now. Then, the next day, I found out one of my best friends also had sex for the first time that night.
Hattie. Age: 28.
I was expecting it to be so nice and amazing, but instead it was so painful.
Jaylene. Age: 31.
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And then minutes later it was over. With endo, the lining of your uterus grows in places it shouldn't, like your fallopian tubes, ovaries and sometimes elsewhere in your body. It was super unexpected and definitely not planned. I liked him, but he had finally gotten what he wanted and that was it.